Perhaps for this reason I feel slightly odd about the concept “girls/women’s
gathering (女子会)” in Japan which I have frequently
seen in restaurant flyers.
Japan is still male-dominated society, so is actually most of the
world. Thus I know the value of exchanging views among women to address issues
arising from this reality. Today, even Japanese prime minister, who is male,
appears to support this move.
While I recognize such opportunities, at some essential level I don’t
feel too comfortable with the idea of excluding any gender groups – female or
male.
Due to historical background, there are certainly many “men’s
clubs.” To balance out, “women’s clubs” might be needed. Nonetheless, I honor inclusiveness because mutual understanding is vital at the end of the day.
Some people do not belong to either gender. For example, I have a
male friend who seems a gay and is very sensitive and understanding of
difficulties women face. Involving such people would certainly enhance gender
equality, rather than excluding them. They could serve as a bridge between men
and women.
It all comes down to each individual, and we need to involve
whoever appropriate.
